Calender Girls... inspiring!!

A story about women wanting to do something with their lifes. Excuse being raising money to buy a sofa for a luekemia hospital where a  friends husband was treated n unfortunately died.
What matters is friendship, one right idea and some guts n hard work!!! The skys the limit.
The story is set in old time yorkshire, london where an english tradition of girls groups is followed. This group talks abt turnips n brocelli and cooking n knitting.. Inherent qualitites of a woman in the 60s n 70s. Reminded me of growing up india too... :))) so the entire concept or backdrop is women growing up in the same town, getting married n growing old in the same town!! Ofvourse there always is a rebel, someone who wants to be more, do more n in this setting she has friends whom she has known for yrs.

Making a transition from a small country side in yorkshire to being featured on the jay leno show in america was a feat of achievement for the middle aged women who in some way are finding some purpose n meaning to life.

I felt that the reason why the whole nude pictures on the calender was taken, for the sofa, was lost somewhere in all the fame that was coming by. But the amount of money earned by the luekemia society clarifies in the end that the cause was the main focus!!!


Interesting and very nice!! inspiring too.. put ur mind to it and u can do it however weird or out of the world the idea is!! :) 

For Somebody!! :)

Lines of my life for somebody special:


I wait for a sign,

So i know your mind everyday,

I look in the mirror,

And i see your face,

The walls break down down,

When you smile at me,

And the world’s much brighter than the one i see

Somebody wants you 
Somebody needs you
Somebody dreams about you every single night
Somebody can't breathe without you it's lonely
Somebody holds I won't think you will see
That somebody's me 



i am the one who wants to be with you
deep inside i hope you feel it too
waiting in a line of dreams and hopes
just to be the one to be with you


Lost and lonely coz you’re the only one
That knows me and I can’t be without you


lyrics that have caught my heart and sole!! feeling dear to me!! :) 

So somewhere in my youth or childhood.... I must have done something good

Was seeing Sound of Music yesterday and noticed that the wording of this one song is so much close to what i had written on "whats goes around comes around" .. as an extension to that thought, a special mention to all the good things that happen via this song is because of something that u would have done right at some point in time!! :) 


Nothing comes from nothing
Nothing ever could
So somewhere in my youth or childhood
I must have done something good

For here you are, standing there, loving me
Whether or not you should

So somewhere in my youth or childhood 
I must have done something good


these wordings are soo true and they truly make me believe that what goes around comes around and when it does, u realise the effect and the impact of it.. and if it is love, even better.. why not!! when 2 people find that love for each other when nothing can make them feel otherwise and nothing stronger their love, its truly a beautiful feeling.. :) i love the feeling of love.. its very cute and nice and cosy and beautiful and hence i pray that everyone, is able to experience love in its purest form and hopefully will do good to get that love!! spread good in the world for the love that u can get in return!! 


god speed people  

How do you show your loved ones that you love them?

An awesome note written Abhi... profound and true!! :)

How do you show your loved you love them?

Saying it is good; it is definitely a start. But if all you do is 'say', it begins to wear thin after a while.
So what do you do? Buy him or her things? Things are not bad either, but if you are buying things for your loved one thinking that alone should be sufficient you are going to find yourself with a resentful one instead.
The Bible says that perfect love casts out fear. Sometimes resentment is born out of fear.

Love needs to be shown in a person's attitude. One great way of expressing love is an uncritical attitude. Nothing kills love faster than criticism. There has to be a degree of freedom in any relationship.
Freedom goes hand in glove with love. Virginia Satir mentioned five freedoms:
The freedom to see and hear what is here, instead of what should be, was, or will be;
The freedom to say what they feel and think, instead of what they should;
The freedom to feel what they feel instead of what they ought ;
The freedom to ask for what they want, instead of always waiting for permission,
The freedom to take risks on their behalf instead of choosing to be only "secure" and not rock the boat.
Go through the list again, slowly this time around and carefully examine your relationships. Answer the following questions:
How do you show your loved ones that you love them?
Do you let them love you back by giving them the freedom to them?
Being protective of the one you love is a very natural by produce of love the emotion. However, love is more than just the feeling; it is very much the doing also. Giving your loved one the space and freedom to grow in that relationship is definitely a practice of love the verb.

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Cheers!!!

Abhi

Have you ever really loved a woman!!

Have you ever really loved a woman!! -- Bryan Adams

i wonder if this song is dream, a fantasy to know any woman so well.. and why are such songs only written abt woman... even in these times are men supposed to do all the work.. too much load on the poor man and then they say "its a man's world"
it could also be that theres so much to write abt the woman breed.. they are so interesting.. (or complicated.. :) )
i just like this song!! utterly romantic...

Do you really love a woman?
to understand her, you gotta know her deep inside
her every thought, see every dream
and give her wings if she wants to fly
nd when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms
you know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
and tell her that shes really wanted
when you love a woman then tell her that shes the one
Because she needs somebody, to tell her that its gonna last forever
so tell me have you ever really, really ever loved a woman

To really love a woman, let her hold you
till you kno she needs to be touched
you gotta breathe her, you gotta taster her
till you can feel her in your blood
when you can see her unborn children, in her eyes
you know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
and tell her that shes really wanted
when you love a woman then tell her that shes the one
Because she needs somebody, to tell her that youll always be together
so tell me have you ever really, really ever loved a woman

Oh you've got to give some faith, hold her tight
a little tenderness, you gotta treat her right
she will be there when you take good care her
ohh you gotta love your woman yeah

And when you find yourself lyting helpless in her arms
you know you really love a woman

Just tell me have you really, really every loved a woman
Ohh just tell me have you ever really really ever loved...

She's Always a Woman to me

She's Always a Woman to me - Billy Joel

A person would can bear so many tantrums, moods, ideas, shades, brain waves, thoughts et c etc etc is an awesome human being... but when u really read the lyrics, it is human shades being put in one line.. if u know and can handle this specially abt a woman, u know her in and out and can live happily ever after (hopefully)... unless your tastes change and the mystery element abt your woman is lost!!

She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child, but she's always a woman to me

She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you
She can ask for the truth, but she'll never believe you
And she'll take what you give her as long it's free
Yeah, She steals like a thief, but she's always a woman to me

Ohhh... she takes care of herself
She can wait if she wants, she's ahead of her time
Ohhh... and she never gives out
And she never gives in, she just changes her mind

And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden
Then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding
But she’ll bring out the best and the worst you can be
Blame it all on yourself 'cause she's always a woman to me

She's frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel
She can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool
And she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree
And the most she will do is throw shadows at you,
But she's always a woman to me