Life's lesson...

there comes a day in my life when it teaches u some important lessons... today i write, not abt the mistake but what i learnt post that.

1) never make a mistake in life that u will regret and cant repair
2) never sideline what u feel n think is right and wrong
3) never stay away from speaking your mind and specially your doubts
4) even if u want to make it as right as it can get, not always will you be given a chance to make it alright.
5) very few people have the ability to move ahead of the problem and look for a solution as immediately as knowing abt the problem
6) very few people have the ability to look beyond the mistake and judge a person for who he is and not because of the mistake
7) very few people make the choice of face the problem in totality and not eliminate the easiest link of the problem.
8) the mind and thinking of someone comes out in the worth situation, how good or bad a person can be, can think, can talk, can feel saaf dikhayi deta hai in a bad situation..
9) never judge a person by how he reacts to a situation specially when hes at the receiving end.. judge them by how they handle the situation..
10) sometimes when u cant do anything, getting out of the way may be the only solution to the problem, till at a later date, it comes and bites u in the ass.

and theres more.... 

Biography of my friends

Working on a series of blog posts that will talk about people who matter to me.. friends.. family goes another direction... a list of awesome individuals who have taught me to be better in life only by their presence. they arent preachers, intellectuals (very brainy).. just regular friends who have had a grt influence in my life!! :) i dedicate this section of my blog  to each one of them. :)
i hope they like it and realise their importance and the effect they have had on me!! :)
this is in no particular order, just posted things that i felt were good to be read and somewhat complete...

these are people most of my friends would know, if you dont know them, pls feel free to know them, they are the best of what u can find! :) i am lucky to have them in my life!!

my way of saying "thank you" for being in my life and letting me learn from you most of the times without u knowing abt it!! :)

boundaries of thinking

are v restricted in our understanding and thinking by what v know.. Is knowledge or the lack of knowledge a barrier to expanding ur understanding of the world.. Does the phrase “put urself in someone elses shoes” make any sense then!! The management jargon of empathize with your consumer.. Isn't that also limited to ur understanding of the situation..
what got me thinking on this was the fact that my projection or opinion of a situation on TV, on film, in real life is in the same lines as what i am exposed to, what i think, what i feel, what i know. hence the level of misunderstanding or not knowing the feeling/thoughts behind what someone else does. thats goes for the other people too.. would anyone not get what i do for them or just in general cause they dont have the level of understanding or exposure to the thoughts that are running in my mind.. thats the world for you!! different people from diff walks of lifes giving u a sign of diff aspects and exposure to life.. another lesson to learn!!