What goes around comes around!! ??

is it true!! is it really true that what goes around always comes around!!
are u in some way responsible for all the happiness and the sorrow that u face in life!! do u have a tallied balance sheet at the end of ur life!! should have asked my grandfather, is it time for u to die when u have balanced out ur life.. the goods to the bads, the joys to the sorrows.. when do u realize that and how do u know that ur sorrows and joys are equated cause to me the sorrows generally feel much bigger than the joys!! on hindside, only after the sorrows are gone do u realize that they needed to be there... profound thinking...

Anyways!! what i meant while thinking of that was more positive and happy!! If u r happy today, u have or would have done something good at some point in time in ur life.. The Geeta says that "karm kar phal ki iccha mat kar" which 2nds my thought of "what goes around comes around".. then the key item to this is PATIENCE. its not like good deeds come with a validity or a limited period offer, so u know that for this good deed done today, i shall be happy on this day in the future. u just have to wait and might never know that the happiness caused today was because of which good deed. :)

Another side to this line can be, what goes to another person, comes back to u from that person. so if u r good to someone, they inturn generally are good to u too.. which makes more sense and relevance. :) mite be thats why people in love generally make each other happy continuously, in more ways that one, in much higher magnitudes than before.. what goes around.. comes around!! :) too many new angels coming up with this thought... most times than less (at least with me) the level of involvement for 2 people are diff at the same time, which means that the magnitude of what goes around isnt the same as what comes around or cld also mean that what u give could mean a lot more than u think or intended too, which might be the reason for dissatisfaction, expectations not being met and the inequality in what goes around coming around. so how do u map that.. the solution to all of this is talking, communication.. (this is turning out to be a self-improvement life topic.. :D)..

third side to this line.. what abt the things that u do unknowingly, without the intention to hurt.. are circumstances or mistakes in life also counted as good deeds and bad deeds?? does that also come around and what if u r truly sorry for what happens and in some cases have paid the price for it too.. would that still come around??

bottom line, what goes around does come around, in more forms that one, in more ways that one, in diff magnitudes and appearance than one. so watch out the next time u yell at some telecaller, some bank exec, in the traffic, at ur friends.. they mite just give it back to u.. :)..

happy coming around!!

Glow on your face.. :)

i have a friend whos recently got married to the love of her life.. the usual family not accepting, then a 2 yr struggle and then parents reluctantly agreeing and later understanding that that guy is the best guy for their daughter. the usual indian family drama.. its been abt 3 months now and every time i meet her, she has a glow on her face.. a moonlit, backlit kinda glow to her face that looks soooo awesome that u just wanna stare at her face.. :)

it shows so much from her face that she is happy... that the love of her life is taking care of her.. like she belongs to someone really special.. like all that she wished for in life of a partner has come true with him and loads more.. but most important is how she feels abt herself, the confidence, the strength, the resilience that she now feels... when she smiles, her eyes lite up, her smile broadens just thinking abt him and ya her smile has ceramic braces and 2 side holes where her premolars were heheh... inspite of that shes got the most incredible smile and the most glowing face i have seen on her for a really long time... beauty product advertisers can actually use her to sell their products.

i think, its all abt how happy u r in life, how nice u feel and its generally because of one reason... that one thing or person in my friends case, that makes u feel that way and look like the moonlight on your face or make the sun, moon and stars envious enough to turn red.. Coincidently, last nite the sky did show a very envious red moon, beautiful but very envious. the sun is already red anyways!! :)

to more moonlights and red envious moons in the sky.. to the glow on your face.. :)

Masakali MasaKali - Delhi 6

Mr Prasoon Joshi, creative director - Chairman, McCann-Erickson, the writer for great songs from movies like Dilli 6, Ghajini, Thoda Pyaar Thoda Magic, Taare Zameen Par, Fana, Rang De Basanti, Black, Rok Sako To Rok Lo, Phir Milenge , Hum Tum, Aankhen, Lajja .. someone who has written a song like "Meri Ma" from TZP which created a wave in the country with the lyrics and the strength in the words. the music added life to it anyways but it was the lyrics were awesome. Another grt wordings from Prasoon Joshi was "Is Bar Nahi" on the Mumbai 26/11 attacks.

Now such a person with profound deep words, fantastic sounding full of meaning, come out with a song like Masakali.

i mean have u read the lyrics!!

"Zara Phank jhatak Gai, Dhool Atak aur Lachak Machak Ke Duur Bhatak" and the bombay link to Heera Panna re.. :) hahahahha!!

this is awesome range of thinking.. the lyrics, the absolute not making any sense, random words put together with the feeling that they belong together and in no other way!! u actually have to read the lyrics so that u can sing along with the song and its such a fantastic tune that u cannot miss out on it. In the telecom sense,

if its the highest set RBT, ur song has arrived. it is the way it is, songs become a hit not by standard way of defining success but by telecom paralance. :D specially for the telecom guys, once a telecom always a telecom.
the song actually has been made so popular that it actually came in the papers too.. hahahah...

The lyrics now are:

Aye Masakali MasaKali
UD MataaKali MataaKali

Aye Masakali MasaKali
Ud Mataak Kali Mataak Kali

Aye Masakali Masa masa MasaKali
UD Mataak Kali Mataak Kali

Masakali MasaKali
Ud Mataak Kali Mataak Kali

Zara Phank jhatak Gai
Dhool Atak aur Lachak Machak Ke Duur Bhatak

Ud dagar dagar kasbe kuche nukkad basti

Mein yeah e yeah e

Itdi se Mud Ada Ud
Kar Le Puri Dil ki Tamanna
Hawa se Jud Ada Se Ud
Purr Bhuur bhurrr Phuurrr
Tu hai Hera Panna Ree

Masakali MasaKali
Ud Mataak Kali Mataak Kali

Masakali Masa masa Masa Kali
Hey Matak

Ghar tera saloni
Badal ki colony
Dekhade thenga In sabko jo udna na jane

Udiyo na dariyo
Kar manmani manmaani manmanni
Badhiyo naa mudiyon kar nadani

Udiyo na dariyo
Kar manmani manmaani manmanni
Badhiyo naa mudiyon kar naadani

Bas Than le muskaan le
Keh sana nana nana hawa

Baas thaan le tu jaan le
Keh sana nana na na na hawa

Aye Masakali MasaKali
UD MataaKali MataaKali

Aye Masakali MasaKali
UD MataaK mataak

re re re re re re
ra ra ra ra

Hey hey hey hyyy
ho ho hoo hoo

Tujhe kya gum tera ristha
Gagan ki basuri se hai
Pawan ki guftagu se hai
Suraj ki roshani se hai

Udiyo na dariyo
Kar manmani manmaani manmanni
Badhiyo naa mudiyon kar nadani

Udiyo na dariyo
Kar manmani manmaani manmanni
Badhiyo naa mudiyon kar naadani

abb Than le muskaan le
Keh sana nana nana hawa

Baas thaan le tu jaan le
Keh sana nana na na na hawa

Masakali MasaKali
UD MataaK MataaK MataakKali
Masakali Masa Masa MasaKali
MataaK mataak

re re re re re re
ra ra ra ra

Hey hey hey hyyy
ho ho hoo hoo

re re re re re re
ra ra ra ra

Hey hey hey hyyy
ho ho hoo hoo
Hey heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

Validation

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbk980jV7Ao

Reshma, a very dear friend forwarded this short movie on youtube to see.. from the name i thought it would be a self motivational speech kinds, but cause it was a short film, it felt like it would be a story with a message. its only after u see it that u realize that Validation is beyond giving u a message on how to live life or how to be happy but actually shows u the complete effect of 1 small nice gesture by this one man who has a normal job and a normal life.

He "validates" everyone who came to get their parking validated at his counter. he is a parking attendant. a few genuine complements from him actually had such a profound effect on the people that they queued up to feel nice because of his words.

The change point in this man's life was when he fails to make the woman he falls in love with, smile. thats when he looses the will to make people smile and feel nice abt themselves. he gets back to making people feel nice when he sees a young couple out on vacation wanting him to take their snap. He makes them smile from their hearts because of the words he says.. he reminds them of the love they share and how lucky they are. He started getting smiles off people while taking their photographs. one such photo was of an old lady in a wheelchair who because of what he said had a very very beautiful smile on her face.

The worlds a small place, this lady happens to be the mother of the woman he loves and she starts to smile only cause her mom smiles... thats the best part of the story.. his dream to be with the one he loves and to roam the world with her, that comes true!!

the picture pasted is the last few mins of the film.. seemed to be the most beautiful end to it..

2 things that make u smile are the people around u, strangers or people u care abt. when people u care abt smile, u smile from ur heart, ur eyes lit up and u stay that way for a long time. when strangers make u smile, the day seems brighter. this stranger's gesture can be a nice smile, a kind word, a complement or just a pleasant face. if i am the stranger, when u think of it, not very difficult things to do.. simple but still not done!! :)
looks like simple things in life get ignored!! :)

hoping to do the simple things in life..

When life seems to be a rerun!!

sometimes life gets to a point when today seems the same as yesterday or the day before that or the day before that... routine is alright sometimes, u get up, get ready, go to work, come back, eat and sleep.. but when the traffic conditions along with the kind of cars are also the same on the road, it does become a rerun or a "deja vu" kinds..

Unfortunately the condition on the roads is so awesome, that u have the time to check out the colour, make, number plate, the toy handing off the rear view mirror, the seat covers and also the people with what they are doing.. u kinda develop a relationship with them, without them knowing.. they become ur road buddies.. :D
thats another blog taking abt road buddies and things that happen on the road and how u master the exact time to touch a place so that traffic is the least.. have a thesis on that which very surprisingly holds true and is proved everyday..

back to the reruns!!
reruns in a way are good, cause there no extra effort, its like sleeping.. u r so used to it that its just something u do.. no thought.. if life was all abt reruns, it would be life.. people will be in 1 state of mind forever which would be boring.. TV serials also have a limited reruns after which they run out their own life. but Exceptions always there - "Friends" those reruns dont die.. :)

going in for another rerun episode of my life.. going home!! :) catch u later in the 2nd repeat of the same rerun!!